Danica's name came form a very special place in our hearts. First of all, Danica is a strong Serbian name that means "Morning Star" paying respect to my Dad's heritage. She was also born at 3:50am which couldn't have been more perfect. From there the name incorporates the 3 most important men in Danica's life- Her Dad, Grandpa, and Uncle.
Dan- For Daddy (Dan)
ic- foe Eric (Uncle)
a/ Li- for Al I (Grampy)
This is where the Liv came in....when Dad was no longer able to receive treatment for cancer we received hospice and Maggie was brought in to our lives; much with my resistance. Hearing the word hospice can cut you like knife as it did right through me. As days progressed and Maggie was going to be a fixture in our lives I with reluctance decided I was going to have some kind of relationship with her and I did, a very powerful one. In speaking with Maggie I wanted to know why she chose this profession and this is when I heard her story. Maggie lost her husband and daughter(who is a twin to her son) in a car accident going to pick up some school supplies. She shared the story of her daughter Lilly and how strong witted and beautiful she was and how she lit up her life. In my own grief I couldn't even fathom hers and after some time my only question to her was, "What did you do? What are we going to do?" Maggie simply replied "Live." That is what we are all doing, we are choosing to Live.
Danica Liv your name comes from love and hope and always know you are protected by the men who love you the most. You are truly a gift and beyond special, I know you will have a purpose that will change the world for the better and I look forward to everyday I share with you. You are truly a gift from God, I love you.
July 25, 2014- one month before baby
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